We learned that resilient leaders don't go it alone. We mapped out their support networks (mentors, friends, family) and identified gaps. Asking for help is not a weakness; it's a leadership strategy.
Teens often isolate when struggling. Helping them identify their "team" beforehand makes it easier to reach out when a crisis hits. They need to know it's okay not to be okay, and it's okay to need others.
Strengthen the Net: Students challenged to reach out to one person in their support network just to connect, or to be that support for someone else.
Parent Tip: Ask, "Aside from us (parents), who is an adult you trust and admire?" Encourage that relationship.
Do I have a support network? Do my kids see me asking friends for prayer or advice?
- Who is the first person you'd call if you got in big trouble (besides us)?
- Do you feel like you have friends you can really be real with?
- How can you be a better support to your friends who are struggling?
The Safety Net List: Create a physical list of 3-5 people your teen can call anytime, for anything (youth pastor, aunt/uncle, older cousin). Put the numbers in their phone favorites. Make sure those adults know they are on the list!
Notice when they support others. "I noticed you stayed on the phone with [Friend] for a long time. You're a really good listener."