We began our final unit on Commitment. We discussed how consistency builds credibility. Trust is earned when our actions match our words over time. We audited our current commitments to see where we are standing strong or slipping.
In a "cancel culture" where flaking is common, a young person who keeps their word stands out. Teaching them that their "yes means yes" builds a reputation of integrity that will open doors for a lifetime.
The Re-Commit: Students identified one commitment they've been slacking on (chores, practice, a promise) and made a plan to finish it well.
Parent Tip: Gently ask, "Is there anything you've promised to do that's slipping through the cracks?" Help them make a plan to fix it.
Do I keep my promises to my kids? (e.g., "We'll go to the park later," "I'll play with you in a minute").
- Who is the most reliable person you know?
- How does it feel when a friend bails on you at the last minute?
- What does "work as unto the Lord" mean when you're doing math homework?
The "No Flake" Pact: Make a verbal pact as a family for the next week: If we say we'll do it, we do it. No excuses. Hold each other accountable (gently!) to small promises like taking out trash or being ready on time.
Notice follow-through. "Thank you for doing the dishes the first time I asked without being reminded. I appreciate your reliability."