We contrasted worldly leadership (power, prestige, being served) with biblical leadership (service, sacrifice, humility). We looked at Jesus as the ultimate model who "did not come to be served, but to serve."
Our culture pushes teens to seek attention, likes, and status. The biblical call to "descend to greatness" is counter-cultural but essential for Christ-centered character. It shifts their focus from "What can I get?" to "What can I give?"
Secret Service: Students committed to performing 3 acts of service this week without seeking credit or recognition.
Parent Tip: If you catch them doing something kind, smile but maybe don't make a huge fuss immediately—let them experience the joy of secret service. Ask about it later in the week.
Does my family see me serving others (and them) with joy, or do I serve with grumbling and expectation of praise?
- What's the difference between a "boss" and a "servant leader"?
- Why is it so hard to serve someone we don't like or who doesn't thank us?
- Who is the most humble person you know?
The "You First" Dinner: For one meal this week, make a game of serving each other. Everyone tries to serve everyone else—filling water glasses, passing food, clearing plates. The goal is to out-serve one another. Discuss how it felt to be the focus of everyone's care.
Look for small acts of unselfishness—giving up the best seat, sharing a treat, doing a chore without complaining. Affirm the heart behind the action.