We studied Mary and Martha to learn that "good" is often the enemy of "best." Leaders must learn to say "no" graciously to protect their priorities. We practiced saying no to distractions and over-commitment.
FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) drives many teen decisions. Teaching them that every "yes" is a "no" to something else empowers them to make intentional choices rather than just drifting into whatever is offered to them.
The Strategic No: Students committed to saying "no" to one thing this week to make space for a higher priority.
Parent Tip: If they ask to drop an activity to focus on school/rest, consider supporting it (unless it violates a commitment). Help them guard their margins.
Am I overscheduled? Do I model a frantic pace of life or a paced, prioritized life?
- Why is it so hard to say "no" to friends or opportunities?
- Have you ever said "yes" to something and immediately regretted it?
- What happens to you when you are too busy (cranky, tired, anxious)?
Calendar Cleanse: Look at the family calendar for the next month. Is there anything on there that is stressing everyone out and isn't essential? Can you cancel one thing to create a "Family Rest Night"?
Affirm boundaries. "I'm proud of you for choosing to stay home and rest tonight instead of going out. That shows maturity."